Why “Failure to Thrive” Needs to Go: Understanding Growth Charts Without Losing Confidence

In this episode of Rural Child Health Chats, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged phrases in child health: “Failure to Thrive.”

Rebecca, a rural mum and nurse, unpacks the chaos and confusion that can surround growth tracking—heights, weights, and percentiles—and how this often leads parents to feel like they're failing, when in fact, they're doing an incredible job.

We talk honestly about:

- Why growth charts can be helpful—but also harmful The damaging impact of outdated terms like “failure to thrive”

- What slow growth really means (and what it doesn’t) The importance of context: genetics, family history, and common sense

- How to advocate for care that works for you and your baby

- Why you are the expert on your child—and what to do when a provider makes you feel otherwise

This is your reminder that your worth as a parent is not measured in percentiles. You’re doing a brilliant job, and if no one’s told you lately!

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